I'm a guy who is attracted to other guys. I guess that's supposed to mean I'm gay. But I've lost count of the number of gay guys who have told me that I can't possibly be gay because I DON'T LIKE ANAL SEX. Really, it does nothing for me at all. In fact I find it kind of revolting. I love masturbating with another guy, and oral sex can be hot with the right dude. But it's kind of frustrating/depressing that virtually all gay guys want a lot more more. Sorry, but my brain just isn't wired that way. When I'm horny, I have to seek out guys who are straight or mostly straight, because they are most likely to agree with my limits. But as you might imagine, it's really REALLY difficult to meet straight guys who into jerking off with a gay guy. I'm pretty much convinced that I will be alone the rest of my life because I'll never find someone with the same sexual preferences.