Two months ago I met someone that became the most important person in my life. We are so much alike that it actually scares me. He is my boyfriend now and I really love him, but he has a dark past and keeps terrible secrets that, when he shared them with me, were hard to admit and understand. I really love him but I don't know what to do anymore, he blames himself for so many things that are not even his fault and for the ones that were it's impossible to do something about it. How can you convince a person that did such horrible things that he is not a monster?