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I think I'm stupid. I was dating this one girl and she was really nice when we were just friends, but once we started a romantic relationship, she got really annoying and hateful, then we broke up a couple of times, but we've been talking about working back to a relationship. I've been suspecting her of cheating on me with her ex, but I never actually believed she was until she posted on Facebook that she was sleeping with him last night. How couldn't I have seen this coming? I thought she cared, but I was just a distraction...

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  • u dodged a bullet she sounds unstable

  • Being in love can strongly influence our judgement of somebody. If you fall in love, you are much more likely to look past someones imperfections. It also makes you really trusting towards this person, since you have a very positive feeling for them, so it's very hard to notice stuff like an infidel trait at first, because you just don't get suspicious that easily. These are things that we have no control over, since they happen as chemical reactions within our brain, so you are absolutely not stupid just because you didn't see it coming.

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