I have some pretty severe abandonment issues. So even when I got married I still feared my wife would leave me one day. So when she wanted to have a baby I jumped at the chance mainly to tie her down and make it harder for her to replace me. I love the kids and the whole family, but I had a pretty bad motive for starting the family. I literally wanted to trap her. I mean she's happy and the kids and I are happy as well, but it's the kind of logic and motives a teenage girl on Maury would use.