After not having sex for a year and 4 months i finally found a guy i wanted to sleep with. First 2 weeks we went on a few dates but we haven't hooked up for almost a month, we have still been texting that whole time, but he's a stoner and can't be bothered or been bendering,. Wahhh i just want to sex him so bad. I'm confused i sense it's never going to happen again. :( i mean stoned sex or coming off a bender sex is the best so worst excuses ever.