I used to be fat and in my first year College I decided I needed to change. I'm doing great now and all the guys I liked before are starting to like me now (3 yrs later). I met this guy who loved me during my transition and we were together for almost a yr. But I miss him, he appreciated the real me. Now I'm with a guy who I know would not have loved me at that time, but he didn't know me them so I can't hold that against him. Life's weird sometimes.