I'm with my partner for 4years now. In the first 3years I always felt like my chest and my heart were torn appart when I has to leave for school or he for work because I missed him so much. But I don't feel like this anymore, I think it is because he doesn't appreciate our relationship anymore, he even stoped texting me to wish me a good night or telling me about his day (just a few examples). When I tell him I'm unhappy and feel unwanted, he says that everything is alright and moves on without changing anything. He's the one I want to be with but I'm afraid that I will cheat someday on him just to feel anything (not next week but in some years) if nothing changes and I stay with him. If he will ever read this: I love you Darling, but please be yourself again and not that mean jerk you became. I don't want to loose you, but I'm afraid I already did.