I need someone's opinion.My mom is soooo against sex before marriage that I'm not even allowed to use a tampon. So because she was worried I was having sex with my boyfriend of longer than a year she snuck into my room & went through my trash to find evidence. This isn't the first time she's went through my things. She's also read through my diary a few years back and totally disregards my private life. Before you ask...no, I'm not still in highschool I'm 19. So I guess my question is, how do I tell her to just let me do me?