Why do women loose interest in me and reject me when I finally open up to them? I have been involved with three women during the last two years, give or take, and this pattern has repeated itself with all three. It takes me some time to get comfortable with someone and to open up. But when I do, they just jump ship. I never hear from them again except some nonsense excuses. I think I'm a failry normal guy, I'm just quiet. Can it be that as soon as I open up the mystery disappears? I'm a bit lost here and would like some opinions.