My gbf is actually an a***ole. People only hang out with him because he is good looking and superficially fun. He has never been there for any one of us when we needed him the most and expected and still expects us to be there for him whenever. He uses being gay as an excuse to be rude and degrading to people. I hope one day he realizes how selfish he is. Today is the day I rid of the burden that is our 'friendship'.