I am sick and tired of people feeling insecure in their relationships. Lesson Two: What other's think about you is none of your business. Do not snoop or pry. Respect the the person's personal space. Showing someone respect is part of receiving respect. Even if your efforts digs up something, which it probably won't, you are still in the wrong for violating your special someone's trust. That violation is usually worse than anything you find. Don't be stupid and ignore things, but don't be underhanded!