A guy really liked me all through middle school and high school, he asked my out loads but I always said no because I just didn't fancy him. Now we've both grown up and we're still friends. Here's what I have to admit: I compare my boyfriend to him all the time! He's gotten way more confident, has got a decent job and is looking to settle down with someone while my boyfriend smokes weed, plays video games, and shows no sign of committing just yet. I love my boyfriend, he's kind, funny and smart yet I just wish he'd get his act together or sometimes I wonder what life would be like if I'd said yes to my friend.