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My biodad gave up his rights for boose and drugs. I was molested from ages 6-14. And I turned 16 as of 2014 and I've only dated on guy. Well he then raped me and said he was sorry and didn't mean for it to happen then the next time I saw him he did it again. And people wonder why I don't like physical contact.

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  • I hope you have someone to talk to about this, a professional maybe? You didn't deserve what happened to you and it wasn't your fault, you deserve love and affection like everyone. And you deserve to be loved, doesn't matter if it's loved by a man or a female, but first you need to love yourself. Love yourself and love will find you. And wait till you are ready to love someone back. Good luck with everything, and may those who hurt you in the past burn and die.

  • Hello, my name is DrFeelGood (On here, at least to protect my real name) And I'm a psychologist. What you're feeling is normal, however you need to attempt to find yourself a REAL man, it is what will lead you to trust again, it is what will lead you to be normal again, all you need to do is be cautious and trustworthy, however in order to find a guy who truly loves you, he needs to 1) Be patient and care about you, and be there for you, even in your darkest moments. 2) Not force anything upon that would hurt you or you don't want (Unless it would benefit you!) And 3) Show you true love and affection that is soft and real, no "sly" moments to entice you, unless you show first. There are men in the world who can love for real. I hope this has helped you. And heres a tip, my girlfriend who I have been with for 3 years was raped. We still have not had sex, because I am waiting for her to engage with me. Only then will I know she is ready.

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