So I decided to get into a relationship with a girl (I'm a girl BTW), thing is she has a boyfriend, we've been "together" for about a year now, and this whole triangle is starting to wear on me. She's amazing, and I don't want to push her to choose, but she keeps saying she doesn't love him anymore? That she's only still together with him because he was her first love (they've been together for two years). I don't know what to do, she's amazing and I don't want to lose her, she's the light of my life, but I don't think she realises how much she means. Any advice?