My sister is mad that I don't want to see her this holiday season. She left an angry message, saying how I " ....owe her sweet children Christmas presents." but all I can think of is last year, when she drunkenly said how lucky I would be when my sick husband finally dies. Her exact words burn in my head 'You will get so much attention from the family when he is gone." -- I feel bad for her kids, but they are teens. If they wanted more contact, they would call or message me more on-line. They are young folk that don't care too much about their old auntie that their mom taught was nothing bad a 'bad influence' by buying them nerdy stuff and video games throughout childhood. They'll remember me when they grow into young adults, and then I will be happy to see them - far away from their bi*ch mom.