I am a 17 year old tans guy. I have realized this trans thing about a year ago but was too afraid to come out to anyone. Now my girlfriend (16; aka my best friend of 7 years) and I have been together since last march. To her, am just a butch lesbian, although I never identified as one. In fact, am a straight guy. I feel like I should tell her, but our one year anniversary is soon and those kinda things are extremely important to her. There's a chance she's not gonna take it well and I don't wanna break her heart just before the anniversary. Also, I don't think it's appropriate to wait any longer. It's like am decieving her. I am so confused right now.