I did not meant to offend my bf on Christmas day, but I was irritated by his semi joke of wasting money for a giant bear as a gift for me around $20 still way cheaper (converted), I suddenly told him that, do I mind paying all the restaurant bills we had? It was way more expensive than that. I saw him turned pale for a second then I said sorry. But really I also felt offended because that is the only time we gift each other besides bday. We are both 25, he could at least save.