I really don't think anyone should discuss any kind of problem in case of death. I think it's selfish and insesnsitive as hell. As a muslim, our funerals last for 3 days. Today was the third day of my grandmas funeral and as I was sitting there I texted my girlfriend telling her I missed her. She started bitching about how I have ignored her for the past 4 days. I regretted texting her immediately.