if someone hurts me (not physically) even if they didn't even mean to, it's like something in me changes. I get really angry, but I don't tell the person. I act completely cold towards them, like on an ice queen level cold. I really don't wanna be like that, it messes up all my friendships. I don't know what to do, but I'm just so angry at this person, even if they say something that isn't directed at me but is offensive in general.. I feel like a total freak and outcast because of the way I react to things like this.