once I got into an argument with a really abusive guy I was dating and in the final weekend of that relationship, the worst most abusive part, I had one more night left in his city and my flight was the next afternoon. at that point I was sleeping in another room of his house but he just kept finding excuses to argue and to get angry. so I texted someone i knew from social media who lived in that city... unfortunately, that night, he was also away from home so he stayed on the phone with me and distracted me until I fell asleep. Since then we developed a bit of a friendship but he would jokingly say creepy things like "no birth control. no condoms. let's start a family" or "I don't even want to be with you.. I want to have you..." yeah, I know it seems to fall into a pattern of possessive controlling guys that i end up involved with but sometimes he really freaks me out... but then there is a quiet part of me that will kind of miss it when it stops... i haven't spoken to him since august 2014 but he still sends really strange texts and i know he knows more about me than I've told him and I know he's probably watching the things I'm doing across all my accounts and idk maybe it's because I was neglected as a child but it's a little thrilling. I DO NOT want to see this escalate though... like him showing up in my town where I am one day... I think I would cry/call the police.. but from a distance it's just like... being in a suspenseful movie.