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I need advice :( So I like this girl, lets call her A, and to avoid any confusion I'm also a girl. Anyway so A and I met online and we've been talking for almost a year now and I fell really hard for A, we met last year March and I thought I would confess to her this year January because Ive been seeing hints of her dropping that she likes me too...then when I confessed she told me she had a gf :(( so I backed off because I still wanted to be with A even if we were still friends. Anyway a few days later...it got really confusing for me. A kept acting like she likes me (like getting jealous when I talk to other people, or if I express that I think this one person is really nice) and etc...so I was so confused. So, after a lot of shit in between, I asked A "Regardless of the outside situation, do you or do you not like me?" and she said, "I like you." :(((( then....I became a coward and ran away and didnt come online for a few days because I was so hurt, confused and thought it would be best if I just stay away from her for awhile so that I could move on (I was gone for 3 days and we usually talk everyday so she was really worried when I left without saying anything) so when I came back she had like 18 messages for me saying she was really worried and when I talked to her she kept saying how she missed me so much, how she was really worried and all that stuff (Note that she's still with her gf at this time) :( and I dont know what to do... Note that her gf, she also met online, and once her gf didnt reply to her for 4 months and A kept waiting...her gf was suppose to be married but she cancelled it...and her gf and A have two different religions and A is very very devoted to her religion...I'm not trying to downgrade A's relationship but even she said it herself that she sees no future between them and that "She's never here" (A's girlfriend) Sighs guys what to do? ;-; I want to be with A so badly but do you think I should wait? I really do like her but at the same time will I ever have my feelings reciprocated? And how long can I wait? I've also been thinking that maybe I shouldnt do anything to preserve my friendship with A because she was, first and foremost, my friend and I just want to see her happy...but a selfish side of me wants her to be happy with me... What should I do? I really dont know what to do....

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  • i'm a girl (likes girls too) and if i was in your situation i wouldn't try to break A and her girlfriend, even if i want to be with her, but you can say the truth, that her girlfriend isn't there for her and that she deserves someone better even if she find another person besides you, and you like her and regardless what could happen you want to be her friend, maybe A will see that she do not need to be with this girlfriend of hers and move on and be happy with you or anyone. Hope i helped you a little

  • As a guy, it frustrates me to no end when girls pull that kind of thing. Sorry to hear that lesbians get that same shitty treatment. Look, if she wanted to be with you, she would be with you. She likes your attention and support and whatever it is you give her (maybe an ego boost, I don't know) just fine, but right now you are just hoping for something that is not going to happen. Sorry, OP. I hope you can find someone who feels about you the way you feel about this girl.

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