I really like this guy that goes to my school. He's funny, brilliant, and we're super close. I know it sounds perfect but there's one major problem... he has a girlfriend. they've been dating for a year and I don't see them breaking up any time soon. When we talk, it almost seems like he's into me but he's super shy so its like impossible to read him. The bottom line is that I want to be with him but I don't want to ruin what we already have by telling him. what would you guys do in this situation? is it wrong for me to be falling for this guy that has a girlfriend?