ugh #&*$# What is the point of being with someone, if they don't want to have sex? my fiance has all these excuses...." we have a baby now, we can't be sexual like we use too,"... "im tired,"... "I don't have the stamina like I use too." I get we are tired from being parents I love my son sooooo much... but I have needs that need to be satisfied... I have to beg him to have sex with me and when we do it is boring. I don't want a broken family because we do love each other, I dk what to do. Am I being selfish?