I'm not in love with my husband, and I've never been. I love him, yes, and he means a lot to me and I'm also physically attracted to him, but it's not the classical love. I've never been head over heals, never had butterflies in my stomach, nothing. Not for anyone. We have two children together who are in their teens, and we are very happy. He loves me with all his heart, and I know that. I've never felt the same. I never will. But he makes me incredibly happy, and I feel safe and content around him. I probably never will fall in love. We are nearing fifty. Lots of our friends have divorced, cheated or something like this. I've never understood the emotion they feel. But I love him in my own way, and I love my family.