want to do comment on virginity topic, are u with me ? : with not so great first experience (i was drunk) and being with same girl i lost it(virginity), for past 4 years. i don't feel like you can LOSE anything (as a man, i think, woman too), i guess you just get your experience that's all. its damn stupid to talk about it as something that you lost in past or will lose it in future, because you did not and will not. your mind will grew (you'll see things differently), because of that experience and you can separate yourself from child in that point of time. Don't be afraid, ashamed, of not getting that experience faster then other, no matter how old are you- its only first step into sex. Things change and you have to adapt your environment and explore almost everything (as you have done already in past as kid), because your made so (your = Human). i'm male 20.