It is said "The things you hate most in the people around you are things you cannot stand about yourself." I don`t really get it. If I hate stupidity in people, does that mean I`m stupid? If I hate people that opress women (i.e Muslim communities), does that mean I`m prone to opress women? If I hate paedophiles, does that mean I`m secretly a deep-down paedophile? It seems to me that I hate exactly what I`m not or what I would never do. So what`s the true meaning of this?