well my brother is gay...get over it. his boyfriend thinks he works hard. rubs it in everyones face. he will rub it in everyones face that he mostly sits and the fact he had to buy special pillows and chairs to sit at his job because he does in home care and his patients think hes to fat to sit on their furniture. i have been told by alot of people, in home care is a easy job. its like babysitting. he even makes a huge deal that he had to watch someone for just 2 to 3 hours. he hates when his patients ask him to do some house chores. just saying at my job, we dont have time to sit. he thinks he works so hard. he doesnt know what hardwork is.