I'm 42. Used to be pretty heavy, but now I run 5.5 miles four times a week and I try to eat healthy. My husband, we're kinda separated, won't even attempt to exercise even though he promised to try and is over a hundred pounds over weight. It makes me so angry that he won't try to take care of himself that I don't even care anymore. If he wants to work himself into an early grave, that's his choice! I look at him and I get disgusted.