a lot of guys think they're hot if they can play an instrument like guitar or drums, or if they can sing. i don't see it as attractive. but i act like it is and hide the fact i can play guitar, bass, drums, piano and sing(not all at the same time of course). I write all my own stuff. i hide that I'm in a thrash band because I'm afraid they'll be turned off. once i dated this guy who played guitar and asked him to come to one of my shows, he dumped me because he felt i was competition and that i was better than him... Am i a bad woman for doing what i love? why should i have to hide it?