My ex bestie ditched me for her then bf, we made plans several times which were then interrupted by her bf, she even lied to me and made excuses; it got to the point we always argued. She never made an ounce of an effort to make up for the damage she caused , say sorry in general and for all the times she stood me up. She never treated me like her best friend after, it was always me looking for her.. This all happened a couple of years ago, every time I hear someone mention her name I'm disgusted and angry that I had anything to do with her. I don't hate her, I just wish she'd be brave enough to apologise and explain her immature behaviour. But karma has its ways, she went through several break ups with her then bf and was desperately looking for a replacement by going to arranged events on FB by a group. I actually didn't feel sorry for her, in fact I was amused and glad. I treated her like a sister, never once did I put my bf before her. I'm just waiting for karma to bite her again.