LONG confession. I have a friend, who's a girl. She's been with this dude for "11 months," longest she's ever been with one guy, but he's a straight up asshole. He uses her hard earned money for drugs, he was kicked out of his bitchy moms apartment, he gets fired from every job he gets, and every time I see him, I want to shove my gf's high heel up his ass. I've never met a bigger douche. I want to protect and support my friend though. How can I encourage her, but also put in my opinion? I mean, this gut I'd border line abusive, With his words and physically, and I just want what's best for her.