My husband just told me that I make him miserable. He has me do everything. He doesn't work, clean, or help out around the house at all. He has a genetic heart problem, but blames me for the physical pain he feels and his lack of 'freedoms' to stay up gaming all night, eat whatever he wants instead of the steady low salt diet I provide, and sleep all day because his medications make him 'drowsy'. I think I realize that he makes me miserable. I've stayed with him because I love him, but if he has no appreciation ... I am better off with a cat. The amount of sex would be the same. 0.