People, how can i get rid of my trust issues ? i don't trust my girlfriend, we're together for 4 years and i just can't get rid of them by myself. My gf has lied to me, has done things secretly, and probably cheated on me, but i haven't got any hard evidence. so i consider that she might be loyal. but i just cent overcome the trust issues. and its ruining my own mind, this battle between i have a great girlfriend and i have liar by my side. We have spoken about this, when we do, i usually make her cry. don't know what to do.