My husband doesn't cook and I am starting to really resent and hate him for it. I cook all the time, prepare lunches for work and I still have to clean up every night. When I bring it up, he says he will clean up but needs to relax first...a few hours later, I end up cleaning up the dishes bcos he'll forget or ill just end up having more work the next morning. im so sick of it. hes not lazy as he works full time but I work just like him and I earn a little more and Ive got to cook, clean and do every god damn thing in the house. so fucking sick of being a wife / slave.