I have a female friend who is obese.. She used to feel depressed & low because she felt no one would date her because of her physique.. Then some days later my guy friend (who also is kinda obese) asked her out ('cause he really loved her & he knew exactly what she was going through.) She Rejected him.. When I asked her 'Why?' She told me she didn't want to date someone who is 'Fat'.. & that left me Speechless..