I never wish to be in a relationship. I never have been and I do not wish to ever be. Why does this bother some people so much? Most think that it is just a phase, but they are in for a really long phase. Why can't people just realize that I think differently about relationships than them. To some people relationship is like bread and water, it is necessary for their survival. They feel like they need it, they cannot imagine being "alone" their entire life, without someone to be in love with, without a girlfriend or a wife. But for me? Relationship is just a luxury, like a necklace or an earring; it is there because you like it, and you want to have it, but it is not necessary for you to have it, you can live without it. That is what a relationship is to me, a luxury I can have but do not need or want. Does this sound like a PHASE to you?