i dnt want to get married bcoz i m not confident about my body. but i have to , my parents are blackmailing me emotinally. so i m trying to get killed and for pg courses to escape marriage. i m an indian.
I am an Indian, I know what you talking about.. Don't be mad.. Killing yourself for being forced to marry.. If you are working try and get yourself transferred/deputed to another town away from your family.. It's not the end of the world.. There will always be a way out.. Try to think of it .. Please give up on the idea of suicide.. It will not do any good anyone... IT will seem like a biggest problem on earth now, but once you manage to get out of it, you will know how silly you were.. Hang in there, take some time, wait for few days or months it will all pass...
please don't try to get yourself killed. being forced to get married is a violation of human rights and you can get help. if they try to force you, you can call the police. if you don't want to get the police involved, you can ask them for details of other support groups and voluntary organisations that are available to help you. in the worst case, you might even be able to get a force marriage restraining order.
also if your body image is a negative one, trust me you are not alone. even the woman with the most perfect body isn't completely confident in herself. so please don't let those insecurities get in the way of having a relationship and your personal happiness. nobody is perfect, but I truly believe but everyone is beautiful in their own way, including you. try things to boost your confidence like getting a makeover, new hairstyle, wear makeup, find clothes that look flattering on you, take up a new sport to be more active, etc... also try to focus on the parts of yourself that you like, instead of your perceived "imperfections". look in the mirror and tell yourself "I'm beautiful" everyday. do this often enough, and even though you will laugh at first, before you know it, it will just be true.
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