I ruined my bf's birthday with talking to my ex... The confess here is.. I only talked to my ex so he could move on happily and that he wouldn't bother me.
well, my gf did the same thing and she was in korea that time and i was in malaysia.....to make things worse is that she didnt even remember to wish me happy birthday...i kept quite and i asked her after a week. that moment she is back to malaysia with me ...i wasnt really happy with that but when i thought about it rationally its kinda ok as she need to have a closure....
I think it is okay to still have some feelings for an ex, there were reasons you were together, just because he wasn't the right person for you, doesn't mean those reasons still exist or that he is a horrible person. That you want the other person to be able to move on shows you aren't selfish. Remind your boyfriend, that the relationship with your ex ended because it wasn't right, and let him know you felt you needed closure so you could move on and focus on your relationship with him. By making sure your ex knew it was okay for him to move on too, you made it so the old relationship won't keep popping up causing problems with your current one. Though, maybe you should apologize for doing it on his birthday, even if it was because your ex reached out to you.
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