So I wanna know when people found out that they liked someone of the Same sex for the first time. so will u plz tell me? My first time was in 4th grade when I had the hugest crush on this girl Sara. She could tell I liked someone so when I told her some guys name in our class she went and told him even know I told her not too. I was so embarrassed after that bc I couldnt tell him I didn't like him bc they both wouldnt believe me plus I couldn't tell her bc I didn't want to lose a friend if I told her I liked her.