My husband and i have been together for 3 years. On our 2nd year together he had a virtual affair while i was away for 6 months. because of his online dating profiles and his bondages...i physically cheated on him with one of my classmates from college. Till this day he doesnt know. I dont want to ever bring it up in order to.save my marriage. How do you get over something like that? Especially if ive never kept a secret from him?