I have been with someone for the past 6 years, like everyone else it ia a relationship of ups and downs. He is a very nice person, very supportive and tries to understand me, although he sometimes fails at doing so. I feel like I love him, but I’m no longer in love with him. I have friendzoned him in my mind, I don't feel anything when we kiss, and being with him is very difficult now. I like having him around, he's like my best friend, and I can tell him everything but I just don't feel attracted to him anymore. I think I grew out of the relationship, and out of him. I don't find our conversations intellectually stimulating, and to make it even worse he doesn't really hold conversations, and has very bad communication skills, so most of the time to avoid awkward silences, I am the one doing most of the talking. And to make matters worse? I don’t even know if I like guys, I had confessed to him in the past that I am bi ... however recently I'm into doubt whether I am bi or I only like girls. The fact that I have trouble in this relationship doesn't help me to understand myself better. But I often find myself wondering why I barely ever look at guys anymore, and only look at girls.