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I worry my kids will think I have a favorite. One is constantly in trouble, you must yell to even get him to look at you, then he does the opposite and laughs cause he thinks it is funny. I don't know how to make him behave. Then there is the other. The biggest trouble is when she leaves a puddle of drool on your leg when she falls asleep on your lap. She follows instructions easily. My wife says I have a favorite. I don't... but I bet my son thinks I do. I love him. I tell him all the time. I don't want him to feel the way I felt. To this day I know I was the unwanted family member. I love him, I just spend most of my time trying to stop him from causing a scene or breaking something or hurting someone. That necessitates yelling and punishment. I just don't take him out enough. Maybe girls are just more calm by nature?

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  • How old is your son? If you thibk he might be able to understand, I suggest you take him apart for a while and talk to him about this. Tell him you think he is an amazing son, and you love him dearly, but he does things that hurt you or others, and you want him to grow up to be a person who will not, a proud person who can get along well with people. You want to help him, not put him down. You care for him and do what you think is necessary to help him be the beat possible person he can be. Now, he doesn't need to be in his teens for this. It all depends on how mature he is, he might even be able to understand this at 6 years old, younger perhaps. You be the judge of that.

  • yeah you think that girls are more calm, how about fucking no? everyone is another individual with different nature... I bet i can find you some girls more problems with boys, the ones who get pregnant too early, or fucked the whole town at the age of 18, be happy that your girl is not one of those girls, and I bet you care more about her... well, if you want to change your son, be more with him... otherwise you are fucked up as a parent... and he will hate you...

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