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I'm a loner type personality and got myself a beautiful and gorgeous girlfriend, i am quite the control-freak, paranoid and not trusting her ... I'm honestly afraid she may be cheating on me.

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  • That's because she is...

  • Take a deep breath, now, do you have any evidence of that (I'm NOT telling you to snoop)? Has she done or said anything that really indicates that? Has she done anything to give you a reason not to trust her? Can you have a conversation with her to talk about how you feel? Is it possible you feel this way because you have low self-esteem and you are dating a wonderful girl that you feel you don't deserve? Talk to her about it. Try not to control her, try to trust her, when you start feeling controlling or paranoid, take a few deep breaths. If you love her, she deserves your trust, if she loves you, she will live up to it. If both you don't love each other, it isn't the right relationship for either of you. And if she keeps proving you can trust her, but you still can't do it, get professional help. It will show her how much she means to you.

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