I hate the "it's all about the journey mindset". It seems that most of the self help courses are about this. There is no greater feeling in the world in getting to my goal, it empowers me and makes me feel alive; the time stops and for a few seconds i am a God. I feel like all the blood rushes and the hair on my arm straightens like a spear. i outgrow my older self when i reach a goal, the old one is dead and the new one has risen just like a pheonix so to all you delicate snowflakes saying "it's about the journey" kiss my boot.