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I just found out that my little sister is 2-months pregnant with the guy she`s been having a relationship for the past 6 months. She`s 21 and he`s 28. I don`t like him, because I know some of his friends and, apparently, he`s a chronical cheater. Even though he cheated extensively on all his girlfriends that I know about, my sister believes he won`t cheat on her. She`s already 2 months pregnant and they want to keep the baby. He already told her that he might not love her 5 years from now, but he`ll always take care of the baby. He also said that he wanted a baby. Any baby. He said it doesn`t matter who`s the woman that births the baby, it just have to be his. My sister is head over heels over his dedication to having a baby but to me it seems like he wants a baby, generally speaking, not a baby with her. Every cell in my body says this is a mistake. She`s to young to have a baby, he`s not really husband/father material, yet they want the baby and I`m afaid this is all going to blow up in their faces. My sister hasn`t lived her life, she`s only 21. I`m 25 and I have absolutely no plans of becoming a mother in the near future. I don`t want them to have this baby because it was an accident, because they aren`t financially independent and stable to provide for a baby and because I don`t want to take care of the baby when they go out. They go out a lot and I don`t see them giving up on their social life. And just because I`m the bigger sister doesn`t mean I`ll have to look after her baby while she goes clubbing. They want support from me and I told them I can tell them what they want to hear and make them feel better, but deep down I`ll say to myself "This is a huge mistake". Oh, and the boyfriend? They have been together for 6 months, after he dumped the girl he was supposed to marry, after a 7-year relationship. They were making wedding preparations when he decided he doesn`t want to go through with it. And getting married was his idea in the first place. This is a guy that you can`t count on. And my 21year old sister wants a baby with him...

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  • I don't think you can change her/their mind about this topic. All you can do is be there for your sister if she needs you.

  • Sorry your sis ain't got no standards. Just focus on being a good aunt

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