I can't begin to even fathom how some people can tell others to get over something in their lives. As if they don't have a right to feel what they feel. Everything we do as human beings will leave you feeling some way or another. We are meant to feel. Everyone has a right to feel pain and agony, to feel utter bliss. What is happening in anothers life is happening, and that's what their mind is on, so why don't we let them?