I have a toddler. You could say I am a stay at home mom. We live in a house, on the second floor - three rooms. Yet, my house is a mess, one room is dedicated storage and laundry that I rarely clean. I clean the bathroom once a month. I vaccum once a week. Dusting is done on occasion. I just don't think it's that dirty. Husband doesn't help at all with cleaning. I am trying to teach the child to pick up her toys after her...I just don't have the time and energy to have a spotless home.