Do not marry young if you're unsure of yourself and the rock you're living on. Explore the world first and discover the sort of person that you are while you've still got the freedom and time to do so. If you're already married, that's okay. It will just be more difficult because now the effect of your choices will ripple down on to the one that you love (or LOVED, depending on your situation) and your children (or child). And honestly, one the most conflicting experiences you will have while married is seeing what makes you happy, make those you love miserable. Anyway, at the end of the day, you have to find your place in this world and build on it. No one can do that for you. And a marriage isn't the place to do it. But of course, this is all my opinion.