learning Japanese us so hard, I'm my husbands secretary in Nara, Japan. I've been having a lot of trouble learning and reading the emails from professors there. I don't really do much I just make sure he doesn't over work himself, eats breakfast lunch and dinner on time even if I have to go to the lab to give it to him. and since he has ADHD and no part of him is organized I make sure his papers and reports are done correctly. can anyone help.