So I'm engaged and getting married soon to the love of my life, he loves me too. But I'm not the love of his life. It's his ex fiancée from 10 years ago. He can't forget her, he tries his best not to talk about her, but ahe comes up in his conversations. He even called me by her name once. He have her picture in his phone. And a picture of them together in his facebook. When I asked him to delete them he kept trying to convince me that it's impossible to just erase someone that you used to love from your life. And that he really loves me and wouldn't cheat. She's happily married. They don't talk. She's the one who left him, he tried to hide the reason from me but I asked around and she left him because he tried to seduce her best friend. Now I'm with a man who deep down can't get over her and still love her. He treats me perfectly and tries his best to make me happy. I still feel like a loser for accepting to be with someone who is not fully in love with me just because I love him.